Why do some violations fade into obscurity, while others become barriers to opportunity? This discrepancy has less to do with individual character and more with the surrounding context.
Take a look at this list:
Speeding
Running a red light
Driving without proof of insurance
Using incorrect turn signals
Writing a bounced check
Not paying credit card or utility bills
Not filing your taxes on time
Breaking a local noise ordinance
Violating a custody order
Posting signs without a permit
Fishing without a license
Not paying rent
Failing to pay child support
Breaking a lease
Defaulting on student loans
Being undocumented
If you haven’t committed one of these yourself, you know someone who has.
That’s the point.
Very few people are exempt.
These aren’t signs of moral failing; they’re evidence of exposure to a flawed, complex, and often punitive system. For those with privilege, being called out on one of these infractions is an annoying, perhaps embarrassing, inconvenience. For those without it, they’re potentially life-altering compounding crises.
The difference isn’t in the offense. It’s in the consequences.
The offenses listed share the following common characteristics:
Many of these are infractions or civil offenses rather than crimes. They typically result in fines, penalties, or administrative consequences rather than jail time.
Most reflect failures to follow established rules, traffic laws, financial deadlines, bureaucratic steps, or licensing formalities.
While seldom criminal, these offenses can lead to a loss of trust, financial strain, or limitations on opportunities (e.g., housing, employment, custody).
They disproportionately affect vulnerable or lower-income individuals. Many of these violations are easier to avoid if one has resources, access to legal support, or flexible time (e.g., renewing licenses, paying fines, hiring accountants). They can trap people in cycles of debt or entangle them in legal complications.
Their enforcement is subjective or inconsistent. The enforcement of noise ordinances, minor traffic violations, or permit requirements can vary widely by location and socioeconomic factors, sometimes reflecting bias or systemic inequities.
They often carry escalating consequences if unresolved. A simple issue, such as a missed credit card payment, unpaid ticket, or license issue, can snowball into larger legal or financial troubles, including warrants, garnishments, or evictions.
For the privileged, these infractions are handled quietly, often with a fine, a lawyer, or a quick apology.
For the under-resourced, these barriers become significant obstacles to housing, employment, and credibility. The same ticket that’s a nuisance to one person is a financial crisis for another.
These infractions aren’t about character. They’re about access.
Leadership without systemic awareness is irresponsible.
If you hold a position of influence and aren't scrutinizing the enforcement or exploitation of these apparently "minor" rules, you aren't leading; you're perpetuating an imbalance.
To be clear:
These violations are often weaponized against the already disadvantaged.
They’re used as lazy proxies for leadership potential, despite having nothing to do with integrity.
And too often, they’re leveraged by petty tyrants chasing control, not accountability.
Leadership includes:
Candor about systems and individuals.
Love in practice, not in value statements.
Creativity to challenge outdated norms, not enforce them blindly.
Clarity that sees context, not just compliance.
It’s essential to understand the severity of these infractions and ensure the response is proportionate, rather than punitive.
Those who are serious about leadership:
Don’t equate infractions with incompetence.
Don’t pretend the playing field is level.
Evaluate themselves and others by how they respond to adversity, not how they avoid paperwork.
No one should be disqualified from leadership for being human in a system that punishes humanity.
Lead better.
Hold power responsibly.
Practice real accountability.
Have you ever had one of these infractions used against you, or overlooked for someone else? What did that teach you about power?
Karl Bimshas is a Leadership Systems Architect, author, and founder of Karl Bimshas Consulting. He helps organizations lead with integrity by designing systems that build accountability, prevent leadership drift, and eliminate jerk behavior at the top.